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Cake day: December 10th, 2023

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  • Hey there,

    We have a lot in common, you and I. I was diagnosed with general anxiety after self medicating myself to alcoholism. Therapy and medication both helped me and now I take 100mg of Sertraline to manage it. You are more normal than you think; many people are fighting hidden mental health battles.

    I too “failed” college but it didn’t stop me from learning and growing and building a career in IT. Your value and your capability are not determined by a degree. You are a skilled employee and you can build on that skill without the traditional school method, if you want. Depending on where you are IT is a tough market right now. It doesn’t hurt to find out what else is out there and get practice interviewing, but if the market is tight it’s better to only leave your current job if you have a new one lined up.

    Now about your current job. If you are the only one who can maintain and develop the company’s software and you’re coworkers are telling you how vital you are then you have leverage to request a pay increase. If you want to go elsewhere then you should do that. You need to take care of yourself and your own well being first.

    As the great Bill Withers once sang, “You just call on me, brother, when you need a hand. We all need somebody to lean on. I just might have a problem that you’ll understand. We all need somebody to lean on.”

    🤗


  • I don’t have it but I’m going to say Parkinson’s.

    I got put on some medication a number of years ago and one of the common side effects was tremors that “can affect the hands and arms and may also involve the lower limbs, tongue, or voice”.

    I’m not much of a crier but it got to a point where I was shaking so bad I had a hard time feeding myself and I broke down over it. I cannot even begin to imagine having to live with that forever. I barely managed a month.








  • Lot of boots in Texas which means a lot of bootstraps for them to use to pull themselves up!

    In all seriousness, they should be getting aid and relief from the federal government. Thats what FEMA is for, that’s what the true American way should be; supporting each other and helping out where we can.

    I wish the best for the residents of Texas but anybody there upset about not getting aid needs has only their local, state and federal government to blame. Unfortunately, some folks will get caught in the middle.


  • Some people do. I used to have a local 24hr diner that had the carafe that sat on a burner all day and there was just something about the tar black, bitter abyss of that coffee that I liked.

    Once I tried good coffee that was bitter, and floral, and nutty, and somehow also a little sweet; really just a well balanced flavor, I understood the difference.

    Everyone has different tastes and it’s probable better to say coffee that’s only bitter is not quality coffee bean coffee.